How to Introduce a New Pet

Slow introductions work best. Rushing can cause fear and fights. Give each pet its own space and go at the most nervous animal's pace.

Ask your vet or a qualified behaviourist if you're worried.

Creating a Safe Haven for Your New Arrival

Before your new pet even sets paw through the door, it’s a brilliant idea to prepare a dedicated safe space just for them. This isn't just about having somewhere for them to sleep; it's a private sanctuary where they can feel secure and relax without being constantly 'on show'. Make sure it's quiet, warm, and has all their essentials like food, water, and a comfortable bed. For cats, a litter tray is a must, and for smaller pets, make sure their enclosure is set up and ready. This initial refuge significantly reduces stress and helps them acclimate to new sounds and smells at their own pace, before facing other pets.

Managing Your Existing Pet's Feelings

Don't forget your current pet's emotional wellbeing during this exciting time! It's easy to get swept up in the new arrival, but your existing furry friend might feel a bit left out or even jealous. Try to keep their routine as normal as possible and make sure they still get plenty of one-on-one attention, cuddles, and playtime. Positive reinforcement, like extra treats and praise when they're calm around the new pet, can work wonders. Showing them they're still loved and valued is key to preventing any unwanted behaviours and fostering a harmonious household for everyone.

The Power of Scent Swapping

Scent is a super important tool in the animal kingdom, and you can use it to your advantage during introductions. Before they even see each other, swap items that carry each pet's scent. Think bedding, toys, or even just gently rubbing a cloth on one pet and placing it near the other. This allows them to 'meet' and get used to each other's smell in a non-threatening way, helping to build familiarity and reduce the shock of a direct encounter. It's a subtle but powerful step towards acceptance and can really smooth the transition.

Steps

• Keep them apart at first
• Swap bedding so they learn each other's scent
• Let them see each other through a gate
• Short supervised meetings
• Reward calm behaviour

Dog meets cat

• Keep the dog on a lead at first
• Give the cat high escape routes
• Never force contact

Signs it's going well

• Relaxed body language
• Eating normally
• Ignoring each other calmly

Key things to remember

• Go slowly.
• Separate spaces.
• Reward calm.

Frequently asked questions

How long does it take to introduce pets?

Anything from days to weeks. Go at the nervous pet's pace.

What is a good example of how to Introduce a New Pet?

"Keep them apart at first" is one of 11 examples on this page. Pick the one closest to the tone you want, then add a specific detail of your own - a shared memory, a date, a name - so it reads as yours rather than copied.

Can I copy these messages word for word?

Yes. Everything on this page is free to copy, print and read out - no permission or credit needed. Changing one detail so it fits the person is all we would suggest.

How long should a card message be?

One to three lines suits most cards. Write the message before the name so you can start again if it goes wrong, and if you run out of room, carry on inside the back cover rather than shrinking your handwriting.

What if one pet shows aggression?

If you notice any signs of aggression, such as excessive hissing, growling, lunging, or flattened ears, it's crucial to separate them immediately and calmly. Don't punish, just remove them from the situation. It means you've probably moved too quickly. Revert to earlier steps in the introduction process, like more scent swapping or longer periods of separation, and proceed even more slowly. If aggression persists or you're worried, do get in touch with your vet or a qualified animal behaviourist for professional guidance.

Should I feed them together?

Initially, it's best to feed pets separately to avoid any resource guarding or competition, which can lead to stress or conflict. You can, however, feed them at the same time but in different rooms or with a barrier between them. Over time, as they become more comfortable, you might try feeding them in the same room but at a safe distance from each other. Always supervise feeding times and ensure each pet has their own bowl and ample space. Gradually, you can reduce the distance, but always be ready to step in if needed.

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