Friendsgiving Ideas: How To Host A Friendsgiving In The UK

Friendsgiving is a Thanksgiving-style meal with friends instead of family. You don't need to be American — it's simply a cosy autumn dinner where everyone brings a dish and says what they're thankful for. Most people hold it on a weekend around Thanksgiving, which is Thursday 26 November in 2026.

Food (everyone brings a dish)

  • Host cooks the main: roast turkey crown, chicken or a big veggie pie.
  • Sides: roast potatoes, mac and cheese, stuffing, honey-roast carrots.
  • Something American: cornbread or sweet potato with marshmallows.
  • Pudding: pumpkin pie, apple crumble or pecan pie.

Games and activities

  • A 'thankful jar': everyone writes something they're grateful for and reads them out.
  • An autumn or Thanksgiving pub quiz.
  • Pictionary or charades after dinner.
  • Pie-baking contest with a silly prize.

Decorations and table

  • Autumn colours: orange, deep red, mustard and brown.
  • Paper leaf garlands or bunting.
  • Mini pumpkins and candles down the table.
  • Name cards with a 'thankful for' note for each guest.

Hosting tips

  • Send a shared list so you don't get five desserts.
  • Ask about dietary needs early.
  • Keep drinks simple: a big jug of mulled cider or a punch.

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How to write it so it lands

  • Start a group chat for the dish list.
  • Keep it relaxed — it's about friends, not a perfect turkey.
  • Send guests a thank-you card afterwards.

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Frequently asked questions

What is Friendsgiving?

A Thanksgiving-style meal shared with friends, usually potluck, held around late November.

When should I host Friendsgiving?

Any weekend in November — many pick the weekend after Thanksgiving, 28–29 November in 2026.

What do you bring to Friendsgiving?

A side, pudding or drinks — check the host's list so dishes don't double up.

What is a good example of friendsgiving Ideas?

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