How To Tie A Gift Bow That Sits Straight

How to tie a gift bow

A wonky bow undoes an otherwise neat parcel. Almost every bad bow comes from the same two faults: twisted ribbon and a first knot that is too loose.

Start with more ribbon than you need. You can trim; you cannot add.

The simple bow, done properly

  • Run the ribbon round the parcel and cross the ends underneath, then bring them back up so it sits flat.
  • Tie the first knot tight - this is the knot the whole bow leans on.
  • Make a loop with each end, keeping the ribbon flat and untwisted at the base.
  • Cross the loops, pull one through and tighten evenly by pulling the loops, not the tails.
  • Trim the tails at an angle or with an inward V.

The florist bow (fuller, shop-bought look)

  • Hold a short tail between finger and thumb, then make a loop to one side and pinch it back in.
  • Make a matching loop the other side, pinching each one into the same point.
  • Keep going for three or four loops each side, twisting the ribbon at the pinch so the good side always faces out.
  • Tie tightly through the pinch with wire or thin ribbon, then fan the loops out.

Paper and no-ribbon bows

  • Cut three strips of leftover wrapping paper, loop each into a figure of eight and staple the centres.
  • Stack them at angles for a rosette, then cover the centre with a small circle of paper.
  • Curl thin strips of paper over a scissor blade for a curled bow with no ribbon at all.

Fixing common problems

  • Ribbon twisting: flatten it at the knot with your thumb before you tighten.
  • Bow sliding: run the ribbon under the string or band already on the parcel.
  • Loops uneven: pull the loop, not the tail, on whichever side is short.
  • Ends fraying: cut at an angle, or heat-seal synthetic ribbon carefully.

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How to write it so it lands

  • Tighten by pulling the loops, never the tails.
  • Cut tails at an angle so they do not fray.
  • Wired ribbon holds its shape if your bows keep flopping.

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Frequently asked questions

Why does my bow always sit wonky?

Usually a twisted base or a loose first knot. Flatten the ribbon at the knot and pull it tight before making the loops.

How much ribbon do you need for a bow?

Around the parcel twice, plus 30cm for the bow itself. Cut long and trim afterwards.

Can you make a bow without ribbon?

Yes - strips of leftover wrapping paper looped and stapled make a rosette that looks better than cheap ribbon.

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