10 things to buy your sister for her birthday

Buying for your sister goes the same way most years: you get to the week before, panic, and buy the safe thing she already has three of.

These ten are here because they either get used weekly or they mark something. UK prices, one pick from our own range, and the card sorted at the end.

10 her birthday gifts for your sister

• 1. A print by an artist or lyric she actually loves, not a generic slogan.
• 2. The nice version of her everyday: hand cream, coffee, tea, a candle she'd rebuy.
• 3. Tickets to see the act she's had on repeat all year.
• 4. A book by the author she already reads.
• 5. A framed photo of the pair of you, badly dressed, from about 2011.
• 6. Something for the house she's just moved into or redecorated.
• 7. A voucher for a treatment she'd never book herself.
• 8. A day out, with the date already agreed.
• 9. Something with the year on it - a print, a photo book or a framed ticket from the last twelve months.
• 10. Our pick: the 'Best Believe I'm Still Bejewelled' lyrics print - designed in house and printed in the UK, and it goes straight on the bedroom wall.

How much to spend

• £15 to £40 between siblings, though a well-chosen £15 will beat a generic £50 every time.
• Pooling with siblings or friends on one bigger present beats three separate medium ones.
• A £15 thing used weekly beats a £60 thing kept in a cupboard.
• If money is tight, give time with a date attached instead - it isn't a lesser gift.

What to avoid

• Bath sets she'll re-gift.
• Anything you'd describe as 'for a woman' in a shop.
• Anything that's really a hint.
• Gift sets you'd be embarrassed to receive.

Getting the timing right

• Order a week ahead so the card and gift arrive in one parcel.
• If you've missed it, send a belated card and say so plainly - it lands better than a silent late gift.
• Put next year's date in your phone now, with a reminder two weeks before.

Don't forget the perfect card

• The gift gets opened in a minute. The card sits on the shelf for weeks and in a drawer for years.
• Write something only you could write about your sister - one specific thing from this year.
• Sign it properly. A name and a real sentence beats 'love from all of us'.
• Every card we make is designed in house and printed in the UK, and it posts in the same parcel as the gift.

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How to write it so it lands

• Specific beats expensive - the best gift is the one only you would think of.
• Order the card with the gift so they arrive together.
• Write the card before you wrap, while you still have something to say.

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Frequently asked questions

What should I buy your sister for her birthday?

Something she uses weekly or something with a date attached - a print for a wall, the good version of an everyday item, or an outing already booked. All three beat a gift set bought in a hurry.

How much should I spend on your sister?

£15 to £40 between siblings, though a well-chosen £15 will beat a generic £50 every time.

What should I write in the card?

One specific thing from the last year, then how you actually feel about it. That single line is remembered long after the present has been put away.