Why Do We Kiss Under the Mistletoe?

October 7, 2026

Mistletoe has been linked to midwinter for centuries. People thought it was special because it stays green in winter and grows high in trees.

The kissing custom became popular in England in the 18th and 19th centuries, and the Victorians helped make it part of Christmas.

Crafting Your Own Mistletoe Display

While you can easily buy a ready-made sprig, why not try crafting your own charming mistletoe display? It's a lovely way to add a personal touch to your festive décor. You'll need a small bunch of fresh or artificial mistletoe, some festive ribbon, traditional red or perhaps a shimmering gold, and a sturdy hook or a strong piece of string. Group a few sprigs together, tie them securely with your chosen ribbon, and form a loop at the top for hanging. This simple DIY project can be a fun activity to get you into the Christmas spirit and results in a truly unique festive decoration.

Beyond the Kiss: Mistletoe as a Gift

Mistletoe doesn't just have to be for hanging; a beautifully presented sprig can make a thoughtful, traditional Christmas gift. Imagine gifting a small, tied bunch of mistletoe along with a lovely Christmas card. It's a subtle nod to festive tradition and a sweet gesture that shows you're wishing someone warmth and good cheer. Perhaps include a little tag explaining the folklore behind it, making the gift even more special. It's a charming alternative to standard presents and brings a touch of classic Christmas romance to their home.

Bringing Mistletoe Traditions to Life

Thinking about how to really embrace the mistletoe tradition this year? It's all about creating those memorable moments. Choose a prominent doorway where everyone will pass by, making it easy for those playful kisses to happen. You might even set a gentle 'rule' that anyone caught under it gets a festive peck on the cheek! Encourage guests to participate, whether it's a partner, a friend, or a family member. It's about light-hearted fun and spreading joy, bringing a lovely, old-fashioned charm to your Christmas celebrations.

The folklore

Ancient Druids are said to have prized mistletoe
Norse myth links it to the goddess Frigg
Some traditions say pick a berry for every kiss
When the berries run out, so do the kisses

How to hang it

Hang it in a doorway
Tie with red ribbon
Keep berries away from pets and children, as they are poisonous

Christmas card messages

Meet me under the mistletoe!
Merry Christmas, with kisses under the mistletoe.

Key things to remember

Hang it high.
Keep berries away from pets.
Use a faux sprig if you have little ones.

Frequently asked questions

Is mistletoe poisonous?

Yes, the berries are toxic to pets and children. Hang it out of reach.

What is a good example of why Do We Kiss Under the Mistletoe??

"Ancient Druids are said to have prized mistletoe" is one of 9 examples on this page. Pick the one closest to the tone you want, then add a specific detail of your own - a shared memory, a date, a name - so it reads as yours rather than copied.

Can I copy these messages word for word?

Yes. Everything on this page is free to copy, print and read out - no permission or credit needed. Changing one detail so it fits the person is all we would suggest.

How long should a card message be?

One to three lines suits most cards. Write the message before the name so you can start again if it goes wrong, and if you run out of room, carry on inside the back cover rather than shrinking your handwriting.

What's the best way to keep fresh mistletoe looking good?

To keep fresh mistletoe looking its best for longer, try to keep it in a cool spot, away from direct sunlight or heat sources like radiators. Some people find that misting it lightly with water every couple of days can help prevent it from drying out too quickly. You can also wrap the stems in a damp paper towel and then in foil before hanging, though this is usually more for transport than for display. Ultimately, its freshness will depend on when it was cut, but these tips should give it the best chance.

Where's a good place to hang mistletoe in my home?

Traditionally, mistletoe is hung in a doorway, as it's a natural spot for people to pause and gather. A busy archway between two rooms, like the living room and dining room, works perfectly. You could also hang it at the entrance to your home to welcome guests with a bit of festive cheer. Just choose a spot where it's easily seen and accessible for those traditional kisses, without being in anyone's way.

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