Graduation Gifts From Grandparents
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Grandparents usually give one of two things at a graduation: money, or something that gets kept for decades. Both are right.
The graduate is about to start paying rent somewhere new, so useful beats ornamental this time.
Finish it with a card
A congratulations card with the money inside it is the bit they keep in a drawer.
How much grandparents give
- £50 to £100 is the normal range from grandparents for a UK graduation.
- £20 to £50 is completely fine and nobody compares notes.
- If you're paying for the meal after the ceremony, that's the gift - no cash needed as well.
- Put it in a card rather than transferring it. The card is the part they keep.
Keepsakes worth having
- A watch, engraved with the date - the classic, and still the one that gets worn.
- A framed print of the university, city or graduation date.
- A good pen, which sounds old-fashioned and gets used at every job interview.
- A letter written to them about what you think they've achieved, sealed in the card.
For the first job and first flat
- A contribution toward interview clothes or a decent coat.
- A railcard, travelcard or a tank of fuel for the first month of commuting.
- Something for the first flat - a decent pan, proper towels, a toolkit.
- Money set aside specifically for the deposit, said out loud so it isn't spent elsewhere.
Ceremony day practicalities
- Tickets are limited - ask early rather than assuming there's a seat.
- Ceremonies are long and seats are hard. Take water and something to sit on.
- Book the meal before the day. Every restaurant near the venue is full.
- Photos with grandparents are the ones they'll still have in twenty years. Take them.
What to write
- "We've watched you work for this. Very proud of you today."
- "First in the family to do this. We'll never stop telling people."
- "Well done. Spend this on something that isn't rent."
- "Whatever comes next, you've proved you can do the hard part."
How to write it so it lands
- Money in a card beats a transfer.
- Engrave the date on anything lasting.
- Ask early about ceremony tickets.
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Frequently asked questions
How much should grandparents give for a graduation?
£50 to £100 is typical in the UK, though £20 to £50 is perfectly normal. If you're paying for the celebration meal, that counts as the gift.
What is a good graduation gift from grandparents?
An engraved watch, a framed print of the university or date, a good pen, or money toward a first flat deposit or interview clothes.
Should you give money or a gift for a graduation?
Money is the most useful, especially with a first flat or job move coming. Put it in a card with a few written lines so there's something to keep.