Graduation Gifts From Parents
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Parents' graduation gifts tend to do one of two jobs: mark the day, or make the next year easier. The best ones do both.
And whatever you buy, write the letter. It is the gift they'll still have at forty.
Finish it with a card
Write the letter inside the card. That's the one they keep.
Mark the day
- A watch, a piece of jewellery or a pen engraved with the date.
- A framed print of the university city or the graduation date.
- A photo book of the three years, made from the pictures you've quietly collected.
- A letter, handwritten, sealed, given on the day. Nothing else comes close.
Make the next year easier
- Help with a rental deposit or the first month's rent, given quietly.
- An interview outfit chosen together, which doubles as a day out.
- Driving lessons or help towards a first car if the job needs one.
- A year of a professional membership, subscription or course in their field.
Experiences
- A trip before the first job starts, while they still have free weeks.
- A family meal where they're the one being celebrated rather than the one being questioned.
- Tickets to something they love and would never buy for themselves.
- A day out, just the two of you, sometime after the fuss.
What parents typically spend
- There's no norm - families do anything from a card and a meal to a deposit contribution.
- Don't borrow to match what another family did. Nobody wins that.
- If you're splitting between siblings, keep it roughly even across the years.
- Say out loud that you're proud. It's the part they'll quote back to you.
How to write it so it lands
- Write the letter.
- Keep it even between siblings.
- Help with the next year, not the last three.
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Frequently asked questions
What should parents give for graduation?
A keepsake to mark the day plus something that helps the next year - a deposit contribution, an interview outfit or driving lessons. And a handwritten letter.
How much do parents spend on a graduation gift?
There's no standard. It ranges from a card and a celebratory meal to a contribution towards a flat deposit, and all of it is normal.