Unique Baby Shower Gift Ideas: Memorable Presents For New Mums

By the end of a baby shower there are usually fourteen sleepsuits, six packs of nappies and one thing she'll still be talking about next year.

This is how to bring the last one, whatever you're spending.

Keepsakes she'll still have in ten years

• A set of baby milestone cards. They turn ordinary phone photos into a first-year record, and they're the prop that ends up in every 'one month today' picture.
• A hand and footprint kit, done in the first fortnight while the feet are still tiny.
• A personalised print with the baby's name, sent after the birth once you know it.
• A letter to the baby, written by everyone at the shower and sealed to open at eighteen.
• A first-year photo book voucher.

Practical gifts she'll actually thank you for

• A batch of frozen meals, labelled and dated. The most-loved gift on this list, by a distance.
• A supermarket or meal-delivery voucher.
• A 0-6 month sleeping bag - the item most often missing from the pile.
• Fragrance-free toiletries for her, not the baby.
• A pram coffee-cup holder, which sounds silly and gets daily use.
• An offer, written on a card, to do a specific job: a food shop, a load of washing, two hours of holding the baby while she sleeps.

Group gifts worth organising

• A cleaner for a few hours a week for the first month.
• A newborn photo session booked locally.
• A nursery chair or a good monitor, split between six people.
• A hamper everyone contributes one item to, built at the shower itself.
• A year of nappy-laundry service, if they're going reusable.

What to write in a baby shower card

• So excited to meet them. You're going to be brilliant at this.
• Congratulations! Here's to naps, snacks and lots of help.
• Wishing you a calm birth and an easy baby. Both are allowed.
• Can't wait for the first photo. Call me for anything, any hour.
• Sending love to all three of you.
• Enjoy the last few quiet weeks - and the loud ones after.

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How to write it so it lands

• Ask whether there's a list before you buy anything.
• If you're buying clothes, buy bigger than everyone else.
• Write the card first - it's the part that gets read aloud.

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Frequently asked questions

What are unique baby shower gift ideas?

Milestone cards, a hand and footprint kit, a personalised name print, frozen meals, a group-funded cleaner or photo session, and a written offer to do one specific practical job.

How much do you spend on a baby shower gift in the UK?

Around £20 to £30 for a friend and £40 to £60 for a sister or close family. Group gifts let everyone give £10 and still buy something substantial.

What do new mums actually want as a gift?

Food, sleep and help. Frozen meals, vouchers, a cleaner and specific offers of time beat almost any object - with one keepsake alongside for the memory.

What should you avoid buying at a baby shower?

Newborn clothes, strongly scented products, anything needing assembly, and advice books nobody asked for. Buy 6-9 months if you're buying clothes at all.

Do you sell baby milestone cards?

No. We design and print greeting cards, enamel pin badges, prints and party decorations, all posted from the UK. Milestone card packs and anything else mentioned here are outside recommendations, not things we stock.