Cheer Up Gifts

Gifts to make someone smile

Everything we make exists for one reason: to make somebody feel good on a day they weren't expecting to. That's the whole business — cards, pin badges, prints, candles and party bits that raise a laugh first and get used afterwards.

This page is for the times someone you know is having a bad run of it. A hard diagnosis, a break-up, a job gone, a stretch of grey weeks with nothing obviously wrong. You want to send something and you don't want to get it wrong.

The short version: small, funny and soon beats big, serious and late. A gift to make someone smile works because it arrived, not because of what it cost.

Gifts to make someone smile under £10

• A funny candle — lit the same evening, gone by the end of the month, no clutter left behind.
• Coasters with a line on them they'd have said themselves.
• A pin badge for the job, the hobby or the joke only the two of you get.
• A small print for the desk or the kitchen wall.
• A card on its own, posted for no reason at all.
• Two cards a fortnight apart, which beats one big present every time.

When someone's ill or recovering

• Something to look at from the sofa rather than something to do.
• A get well card with an actual sentence in it, not just your name.
• Nothing scented if they're having treatment — smell changes, and strong candles can be miserable.
• A print or a pin badge that treats them as themselves, not as a patient.
• Say when you'll next be in touch, and then be in touch.
• Send the small thing now instead of the perfect thing later.

When someone's grieving

• Don't try to cheer them up. Just show up in the post.
• Something for the house — a candle they can light for the person.
• A card at the six-week mark, when everyone else has stopped.
• Name the person who died. People are far more afraid of the name than the bereaved are.
• Nothing that needs a reply, a thank you or a decision.
• See our sympathy cards if a card on its own is the right size of gesture.

When it's just a rough patch

• The rudest card you can get away with, and nothing else.
• A pin badge that says the thing they're too polite to say at work.
• Coasters for the desk they're stuck at.
• A print for the flat they've just moved into on their own.
• Something daft posted on a Tuesday for no occasion whatsoever.
• A thinking of you gift beats a good-luck one when nothing's actually happening.

What to write when you don't know what to write

• "No reply needed. Just thinking about you."
• "This made me think of you, which is either a compliment or an insult."
• "I'm not going to pretend I know what to say. I'm here either way."
• "Sending you something small because the big stuff is out of my hands."
• "Light this and ignore everybody for an hour."
• "Still here. Still thinking of you. No need to answer this."

What not to send

• Anything with a deadline, a task or an activity attached.
• Strong scent to someone who's unwell.
• A hamper of food they've no appetite for.
• Advice, dressed up as a gift book.
• Something so expensive they feel they owe you.
• Nothing at all because you left it too long — late is fine, absent isn't.

Funny candles

Hand-poured in the UK, with a line on the label that does the talking.

Coasters and desk pieces

Small, funny, and in front of them every single day.

Prints for the wall

Something cheerful for the kitchen, the hallway or the home office.

Cards to send with it

Or send just the card — for a lot of people that's exactly the right size of gesture.

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Frequently asked questions

What gifts make someone smile?

Small, funny things they'll use: a candle with a joke on the label, coasters, a pin badge or a print that references something only the two of you would find funny. Specific beats expensive, and something that arrives this week beats something perfect that arrives next month.

What's a good cheer up gift under £10?

A funny candle, a pin badge or a set of coasters with the card. All three cost under £10, all three get used, and none of them make the person feel they now owe you something.

What do you send someone who's having a hard time?

Something that needs nothing back from them — no reply, no thank you, no decision. Say in the card that no reply is needed, and then send a second card a few weeks later when everyone else has gone quiet.

Is a card enough on its own?

Very often, yes. A handwritten card with one specific sentence in it is remembered far longer than a gift with a signature and nothing else.

How quickly can a cheer up gift arrive?

Everything's made and held in the UK, so gifts and cards post together and typically land within a few days of ordering.