Cheer Up Gifts for Him

Cheer up gifts for him

Men tend to get sent nothing at all when things go wrong, on the theory that they'd rather not talk about it. Sending something small is how you say you noticed without making it a conversation.

Desk pieces, coasters and certificates do the job: funny, useful, no feelings required at the point of opening.

Under £15, made in the UK, and the card goes in the same parcel.

Cheer up gift ideas for him

What to write

What to spend

  • £5–£10 is plenty. Cheer-up gifts work on timing, not on price. Shop this card
  • Two small things a fortnight apart beat one big parcel. Shop this card
  • Anything over £30 starts to feel like an obligation to reply. Shop this card
  • A card on its own is a real gift, not a cop-out. Shop this card
  • Group chipping in? £3–£5 a head and one card everybody signs. Shop this card
  • Spend the effort on the message, not the object. Shop this card

Funny candles

Hand-poured in the UK, with a line on the label that does the talking.

Coasters and desk pieces

Small, funny, and in front of them every day.

Prints for the wall

Something cheerful for the kitchen, the hallway or the desk.

Pin badges

A pound or two, posted in an envelope, and worn for years.

Cards to send with it

Add the card and it all arrives in one UK parcel.

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Frequently asked questions

What do you get a man who's having a hard time?

Something funny and practical — a certificate, coasters, a desk piece — with a short card and a concrete plan to meet up.

Is a card enough?

Yes, particularly if it names a day you'll see him. The plan is the gift.

What should you avoid?

Anything sentimental, anything about self-improvement, and anything that requires a serious conversation on opening.